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Hello Alis, how are you? I am the type of guy that is very comfortable with the ladies. The only trouble I have is asking them out on the first date. What would you think is best way to ask a girl out for the first date? Thank you for your time.


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Hello,

The best way to ask a woman out on a first date is to be confident but not too forward, it really depends on how your personality is and how well you know the girl. You can try asking her what her...

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May 20, 2707 01:16 PM - Love - by johnnyman (man)

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Me and this guy have been talking for some time now, everything is AMAZING we connect so good together. He tells me im the only girl hes talking to but he has a lot of GIRL friends. He's scared of commitment but I want a relationship. He's a business man and hes always busy but I understand all that, I'm just confused cause i want to be in a relationship with him but i dont know how to bring this up. I'm scared if it goes on this way for any longer I'm just gonna forget about him so he doesn't end up hurting me.


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First off, make sure that you don't just want a relationship for the sake of a relationship and it's him you want to be with. With that said, give him a little bit of time to prove what he actually wants. When a man wants...

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May 20, 7876 01:15 PM - Love - by beauty (woman)

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Can you please tell me what "taking things slow" means when a guy says it? Like i don't want to be clingy or anything but honestly do not know what that means. Does it mean he's seeing other people and he has his options open?


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"Taking things slow" can mean a variety of things, but they ultimately boil down to the same thing - he's interested but doesn't want to dive into a relationship without knowing you more in depth.

It...

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May 20, 515 01:15 PM - Love - by E (woman)

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I've been with my bf for almost 1 yr. He was in a 7 yr relationship before he met me. We broke up for about a week and after a week I get an email from his ex gf saying that " have your bf not to ask to see me, and if u wanna know the truth u can always ask" . I confronted him and he apologized for it after we got back together, he said he was alone and wanted to talk to someone untill this day( its been 4 months that has past) I cant stop thinking about it . I'm afraid to stay in the relationship, I'm afraid that he will hurt me again by cheating on me. Is it safe to stay in the relationship?


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It's understandable that you don't feel completely secure in your relationship at this point in time, and you have every right to have your guard up.

Although it's easy to place complete blame on your...

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May 20, 70 01:15 PM - Love - by violet (woman)

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So my boyfriend ended our year and a half relationship with a text and its been a week and we still havent talked. Do you think thats normal? And do you think we will talk again? This has happened a few times where he has texted me back but i feel like this time he was really serious. Also, he did mention a break in the relationship a week before we" broke up" but we never had one. So could this just be a break and he just called it a break up?


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When one partner in a relationship makes an abrupt move such as your boyfriend did, the normal reaction is to want to speak to him and mend whatever took place and start fresh. It looks like there's some type of habit in...

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Sep 6, 2011 01:55 AM - Love - by aa (woman)

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Hey.. So this guy that has been in and out of my life ... came back and now he wants to settle for real and i have trust issues i don't know how to cope with. i love him but at this point i don't know if it's going to be one of hide and seek kind of games again. How should i communicate so i won't seem that i'm in love and want to be with him? I need to clarify the fact that he is the one that left multiple times and because of this i lost my trust (even though hes the one person i will and can be with)?


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There's only one way to answer your question: Be honest. You already have all the answers you need in your heart and mind. Don't put your pride first this time. It's okay to let him know exactly how you feel. Let him know...

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Sep 4, 2011 10:56 PM - Love - by Zeyna (woman)

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I'm in a relationship with a guy thats older than me by 7years. I love hanging out with him, we see eachother ALMOST every other day. He's made comments a couple of times how he wants to have his space or " i wanna be able to miss you ". Do i have the right to be hurt?
I feel like him wanting to be with me( SPENDING TIME) doesn't come out naturally. Most of the days i cancel on my friends jus cuz he wanted to see me. I make sure i make myself available. I have a very sensitive personality, love attention and i feel like hes trying to make me run after him eventhough he would not do the same for me.


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It looks like you already have all the answers you're seeking. What you need to do is set your priorities straight. Don't sacrifice spending time with your friends and family for him. Guys take advantage when they notice...

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Sep 4, 2011 03:50 AM - Love - by ladyinRED (woman)

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Ive been with my boyfrirend for almost a year. My parents find out about him around the 5th month of us dating. They didn't like him first.. then when they saw his 'okay', they let me talk to him & go out with him here and there.Then something really went wrong.Me & him got into a huge fight and my parents found out.They started to hate him even more and didn't let me go out with him.They get mad at me everyday for talking to him..Not because of the fight, but because of his looks.And by looks I mean face,skin color(his armenian but very tanned), and even height.


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Your parents will eventually come around once they see that you truly have your heart set on this guy and aren't going to change your mind. It'll take some time for them to warm up because they've lost trust and faith in...

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Aug 30, 2011 03:54 PM - Love - by helpme (woman)

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Hi! I have a problem.I'm not completely over my ex and its been almost 2 years that we haven't talked. Now I have a boyfriend and it's been almost a year that I'm with him.I don't know what to do I honestly feel guilty. I guess I can say I had the best times with my ex beause he was older and had more ideas. But this guy that I'm dating now is my age..when i think of an ideal bf, i think of someone whos romantic and knows how to take care of a lady.. but my boyfriend isnt like that. every day is the same routine with him. i dont know what to do. How can I explain it to him to be more fun?


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It seems your dilemma isn't quite that you're not over your ex and you feel guilty being in a relationship with your boyfriend while carrying this guilt, it seems more that you wish your current boyfriend changed some of...

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Aug 30, 2011 03:39 PM - Love - by Anon (woman)

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I'm in love with a guy I met many years ago. We were both young at the time. We were never in a relationship but we went out a lot and I guess that's when I fell for him. He was so honest and open with me and I felt like he truly did care for me. More time passed and he dissappeared. He wouldn't communicate for months and he would reappear again randomly. The thing is.. after a 2 years he appeared again and said he wanted to be with me and I decided to give him a chance because I truly was never over him and I am not till now. But once I gave him another chance, he dissappeared again. Now what?


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Although you fell in love with this gentleman when he was younger, it seems his days of "hide and go seek" are still not over. It seems rather obvious that there is a mutual attraction between you both. In cases where you...

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May 20, 9792 01:14 PM - Love - by Emmy (woman)

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